You've basically lagered (stored for a long time) your Belgian ale. It's long been known that long-term storage results in a milder tasting beer. The same effect that you are seeing here is well known with Bavarian hefeweizen, everyone will say "wheat beers taste best young!" The same applies though to really any style. IPA is another example of course.
Oxidation can definitely be a factor, who knows what the oxygen level was in your finished beer when you packaged it, or whether there are leaks someplace in the system. But oxidation is not the only factor either. Time is a big factor. And the chemical changes that come over time are extremely complex, there are dozens of chemical reactions happening at any given time in any beer, it is extremely complex and can be difficult to predict and replicate.